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Mind you - S1
By Karthik | July 22, 2008
There are no reasons for you to worry when you feel that your life is such a bore. There are no reasons for you to complain about how life has been cruel towards you.
There are no reasons for you to whine about how life has never been exciting and that you have no one around you to make your life exciting.
The most important person is you. I am not stating this on the aspect of being selfish, but rather in an abstract form. You cannot expect someone to love you if you do not love yourself. But again, I am not saying you should completely be narcissistic to the extent of developing unhealthy personality traits.
If you do not love your own company, how is it possible for others to enjoy your presence?
There are times, when you enjoy the presence of someone and when you think about it, you don’t really know why you actually enjoyed their presence. They might not be very talkative, and they might not be interesting at all. But then again, you enjoy their presence. These are individual who are confident about themselves, and they love themselves just as much as they love you. They don’t talk much, but they are accommodating. They listen and they talk adequately. A unique balance which they may or may not be aware of.
But that’s not important right now.
Do not wait for happiness or excitement to knock on your door. Just because they don’t come your way, it doesn’t necessarily mean that you have got to be miserable. You have yourself, and you have the intelligence to solve problems, even if they are as simple as “being bored”. If you feel your life has not been very productive, you have the intelligence to change that. If you don’t change your situation, then, time MIGHT change it. But when time does change it, you may never know if you’d have control over it, and then, if you do not favor it, you might actually be at lost.
So, first principles, be enthusiastic about life! If you are bored, find something to do… in the 21st century, there really are so many beautiful things in life that you could do. And mind you, they’re absolutely productive. There are so many possible ways to change your life, but the only thing that could stop you is the lack of enthusiasm towards life. With it, comes procrastination. If you want change, be the change.
Stop whining. Stop complaining. Start changing…
My two cents…
Topics: Mind You, Rants and Advices |
